I personally haven’t looked hard into this area, but I’ve felt really grateful to the people I know who have shared their experiences.
Catherio has the most comprehensive writeup:
It includes some related folks’ discussion of choosing a clinic (primarily useful for people in the SF Bay Area, but some generally useful advice and resources).
Nancy Hua went through one cycle a while back and then two more during covid and wrote about her experience here:
A friend posted this article as a warning on optimism
(I’ve also been cautioned about the pregnancy risks (rather than egg/fetus risk) for older mothers, but I haven’t looked for studies to back that up)
Eloise also recently went through the process (eventually 3x) and left these notes for us:
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She also left this amazing photo, which she graciously allowed me to include:
🧮 This is a simple google sheets calculator on the odds of a live birth (from embryo freezing)
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